There is a time and a place

One of my points of pride about my cam room is how friendly and random it can be. I try to welcome everyone, regardless of how ridiculous the handle is.

"Hi BiggerThenABreadBasket. How are you? Can I call you 'Bread?'"

"Hey HARDnHRNY, what are you up to tonight?"

"So, Bored'nFantastic, I'd ask how you are, but I think you just told me."

Once we get past the introductions, if someone stays, I try to engage them in conversation. A little flirty getting to know you, otherwise I might get whisked off to a private session that isn't right for either of us.

Some nights my room is full of people I've known for months. We can joke and have fun, sometimes go private, but mostly they chat and help me get new members and new sessions. I hope anyway. Earnings have been very very slim on the cam site lately. But sometimes I only see new people and worse, few of them at that. I've heard all the models are suffering the same way, I just am newer, older, and less disinhibited than your average porn star or 18-year-old European nymphette.

Last night I had conversations with a whopping two new people. And I think my conversation with one of them actually lost me a session with a longer time member because I was trying to feel him out. Dammit.

The first new individual identified himself as being 18-year-old. This made me leery on many levels. First of all, is he really? Then, I think it is creepy that I could actually be old enough to be his mother. Then I worry because so many of the "milf chasers" I get are just rude. He wasn't rude, just a bit awkward. Eventually he told me he was Egyptian but living in Canada.

And then the member I thought would take me private left and I was just annoyed.

Next person came in with a handle based on a 90's long haired rock singer (his most famous bandmate wears a top hat and shades) and proceeded to "scream" (all caps) at me, the lyrics of one of the most famous wailing songs of said musician.

Followed quickly by pick-up puns so old they needed to be recycled. But then he asked if he at least had gotten me to smile and I thought perhaps, maybe, I might have a session coming up. This one also identified as Canadian.

So we talked movies a bit and music and other inconsequential topics, and my feet got colder and I felt a little bit more awkward by the second. And then, member #2 asks "So what are your thoughts on gun control?"

And I answered honestly, in that I believe there should be more. And left it at that.

This is my opinion; as the daughter, grand-daughter, niece, and sister-in-law of police officers, as well as a prior police applicant myself - no one in the general public needs high capacity magazines or military style assault weaponry. For any reason. Shoot deer and birds with hunting rifles and shot guns, and then you better eat them. Protect your home and your property with small caliber handguns or those same hunting guns. If you feel the need to have something bigger and more powerful, you might want to investigate why you feel that way. This is my opinion.

His response?

"Wrong answer."

And that's when I knew my time at the cam site was going to shit.

Seriously, you come to a site where you can see women (and men, and transexuals) get naked and perform for your sexual pleasure, and this is what you come up with?

And it went on from there. Every third statement was "I don't mean to preach but..." while he railed at me about the evils of government and how every case of strict gun control resulted in atrocities.

I left.

No money for me from the cam site last night.

Thank you very much.

There is a time and a place for political discourse, and unless you want to take me private and rant your personal beliefs at me while paying me $1.99 per minute, my cam site is not either.

5 comments:

  1. Wow. You mean the social implications of the 2nd Amendment on Modern Life is not a sexual turn-on? Maybe it's my law school training, but that kind of talk gets my motor running.

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    1. You know, if I had been allowed to respond and actually heard, instead of lectured to by someone half my age, I might have at least been interested. In this case, my opinions and experiences were dismissed out of hand and I was lectured to as though I was a child. Not sexy.

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    2. No. Not sexy. Sexy, by definition, means being "heard" by someone else.

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  2. That was just crazy Kir. There was no need for that to be brought up at all, but he should have at least let you answer be and went on his merry little way to someone who gives a damn. You are right he had no right to Lecture you like that.

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    1. It was so completely rude, as well as a way to destroy any chance of getting any private time with anyone who might come into my room.

      WHY do I get these people? I mean I've made a whopping $22 this week on the cam site (I had to take last night off because I am exhausted and haven't had a day off in how long?). WTF?

      I'm getting really discouraged again. This sucks.

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